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I really love my grandmother, too. Nanas forever.

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This was beautiful Daisy!

It’s so moving and vulnerable and well-written. :)

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Thank you Michael <3

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Thanks for reading Marc. Call your grandma! ❤️

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Sep 8Liked by DAISY CASHIN

My grandma is 90 something now. I know one day she’ll be gone. This reminds me I need to call her a little more often. Thank you for this, Daisy.

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Sep 7Liked by DAISY CASHIN

It's funny how our perspective shifts so much when a loved one has been sick for a while Vs when it first kicks in. My grandad passed away a few years ago after a long battle following a stroke, and I expected to be angry and devastated and everything else because he was one of my favourite people, but in the end I felt oddly at peace, because he wasn't suffering now and it was no longer about how sad I was that I didn't have my grandad as he was anymore, but about how much he had left me with through how amazing he'd been when he was well. It's good to cry. It's good to see that they're not lost even when they're lost, too ❤️

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Exactly. <3

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I've read this 3 times already today. Your Nana. It's just so beautiful.

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3 times! You’re the best

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Sep 7Liked by DAISY CASHIN

absolutely stunning. i love nana and her lo mein, wow <333 pictures in the leaves, wow.

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Grief and peace. Wonderful!

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ahh thank you!

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Sep 6Liked by DAISY CASHIN

♥️

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Sep 6Liked by DAISY CASHIN

just beautiful

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thanks Angela :)

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Sep 6Liked by DAISY CASHIN

Brilliant! HBD Nana!

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:)) THANKS

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Beautiful. <3

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Life can wear us down sometimes. Just the weight of it all. Thanks for the heartfelt post.

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It’s a lot! It’s always a lot. Thanks for reading my friend.

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Happy Birthday, Daisy's Nana!

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This is all very relatable; my grandma has dementia, too. I just go wherever she wants to go in a conversation. If she's happy, I'm happy. Still hard, but less so, now. <3

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Sorry to hear it Sean. Yes. This is the way. I’ve learned to fight it less. Just ride that big sad wave baby. I appreciate you.

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Sep 6Liked by DAISY CASHIN

There will always be the pictures in the leaves

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Always!

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